A ton of thanks to the organisers

Words can hardly express the surprise, the joy and the gratitude I felt at the wonderful
and fantastic Farewell Party you organized for us on Friday,15th  April, 2016. I was
immensely surprised to see so many unexpected items in the programme---the music with
beautiful singing, accompanied by innovative games, and the surprising gifts:too numerous to account for.
The greatest surprise was the moment of vedio. I was really mesmerized how you guys managed to get it done in such a busy schedule with creation of nice vedio having a photos of every individuals! 

I have to say a “Thank you” to each
and everyone who contributed towards the surprising and awesome farewel party. I shall truly treasure this moment of the combined efforts of so many loving juniors who took pains to get it done
beautifully in time for the Farewell Party. I shall keep this moment to recall my sweet memory of every one of you.
You have taken time and energy to launch such a warm, loving and successful party
for us despite your busy schedule.
frankly speaking, the programme was really touching and heart-warming, and everything was lovely. I have never dreamt that the Farewell Party could have marvelous wonders,with lots of love and sacrifice behind the scene. For

this, I am very grateful!..

Don’t get lost hiding from the truth

My long term dream has gone.   I have always wanted one thing in this life, So, I will go on, I will find a way to be happy, it just won't be tomorrow.  Since I am a survivor, I always see the light at the end of the tunnel, it will be there for me in the future.  I still have hope for that dream to knot me once again.

An antidote to boredom-LOVE

14 february,..unforgettable day for her,where she got harsh betrayal from her love UNEXPECTEDLY

"The days were long,long as they had nothing moved apart.this is the day where i would never never gonna

TRUE NATURE OF LIFE I HAVE BEEN OBSERVING

Thanks to my perfect gurus,i have reached to this stage of realization.

kyabje dilgo khyentse

70th Je-khenpo,truelku Jigme choedra

H.H Dodrupchen Rinpoche

Dzongsar Khyentse Rinpoche

dzogchen guru khyentse ozer

At the beginning  evrythg seems the best and the most peaceful and delightful.

but in the end,it is no more than being in  a devil's prison.

companion and love

at first,the sweet smiles,a man/women from heaven.

 like a smiling angel

in the later stage,one turns out with fierce and exasperated character .

but in the end,one's the greatest enemy .

which compels one to feel  just like a passer-by in the Jaigoan market.

meeting with them is temporary,wen the good fortune comes to an end,separation is forever,

like a son and mother who love and care each other

when discord arise,they fought and quarrel and lead a life like a foe.

so in one way it has got no meaning on companion

wealth are the stuffs one love to hold.

at the first, weaith seems to be wish fulfilling gem..

when time passes by,one cannot handle life without it.

in the end,one feels a penniless beggar.wen one reaches to graveyard,

one's empty hand can take nthg with oneslef

pride,ego and arrogance are the factors one love to follow in this young age.

none think of old stage

its for sure,it approaches slow like a seed growing underground.

 when one involved in worldly things,

one’s mind towards the thought of death approach diminishes.

but it comes out with a sudden force.

Virus in a document fly in single file,likewise,

life,death and intermediate state are three visitors follow one another without any hesitation.

One has to be mindful, this human body is like a bag full of filth and dirt.

never be proud of the beauty and strength of one's body .

don't you think one’s body is an ungrateful creditor,what ever good one does

it always plants the seed of sin and pain.

yesterday, had enough and more,

but today all gone and nthg is left.

last year one was alive and this year one dies.

Even a seconds of life,one cannot predict what might be present in it.

so,one has to be mindful in speech one speak..

being silent would serve better than having a conversation speaking harsh words and gossips.

gossip about others and their manner.

is what one is interested with.

but one must question oneself,are we so gentle when one has conversation full of  gossip?

 One’s created sin hurt no one but oneself

among the million heads,one value the most one's own share.

life is moving with world like a flowing river of Torsa .

Unceasing life of future lives in samsara.

why not ,prepare a boat for the crossing?

One must prepare it and if one crossed it.

One would be happy having to realize that evrythg is bounded with illusion

Life wears out by days and years

Yet in pursing pleasures,spent their life,preparing for living.

After preparation of living is done,they ended up in the graveyard.

Very Inspiring Blogger Award

I do not know how far my blog has inspired you in your real life ..any way thanks a ton Jigme Zangpo for  nominating me for the very blogger inspiring award.

To begin with my seven facts about myself,

1.I am straight forward but secretive, very stubborn when I have concrete truths to contest. Due to my stubbornness, cannot budge for anything in the world.

2. .i am very particular with words and time which makes me very impatient, I can’t consider a minute aspects of matter if someone delays by a single minute with what they are supposed to do.

3.i am very short-tempered but I am sorting it out.i am not good at lying, so I do not like to bring out happiness by lying, even though I am in bad situation,I donot prefer to lie. the easiest task in this world is to speak.no effort needed ,speaking the truth as simple as that.

4. i am independent, like to lead my life my own fashion in a simple way. I don’t have any excitement into others’ lives.

5.when it comes to friendship, I don’t have any boundary to be friend.i usually look out my friends with caring and generosity, and encourage them with my natural optimism.once friend,is life time friend for me.

6.i am very much keen and active to start with new things but I have bad habit of leaving things in the mid-way, which depicts that I am not  interested to hold any stuff for longer duration.

7.,I donot talk much but am good listner ,most of my time is spent in the silent room,reading books based on true stories,writing something, watching movies..

anyway,the stated points are the seven facts about myself . 
Following bloggers are my nominees for the very inspring blogger award....
1.Overcome
2Ugyen T Tenzin
3.Jigme Namgyel
4.RikuRiku
5.Langa Tenzin
6.Sangay Cholden
7.Rupa
8.Tshering Chekii
9.Tshering Delkar
10.Tshering Yangzom
11.Pema Wangchuk
12.Namdrel Zangpo..

my dear nominees ,i would be grateful if could jot down 7 facts about yourself and nominate 15 bloggers.whereas,me i couldnot nominate more than 12 bloggers for the very inspiring blogger award

Lesson on treating people

First paramount message: cleaning lady

During my seventh grade in choden school,in the year 2005,our enlish teacher,mam sonam choden gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student and had a breezed through the questions,until I read the last one:’’what is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?”

Obiviously this would be some kinda joke,i had seen her cleaning several times. She was tall, dark-haired and in her forties,but how would I know her name?i handed the paper to my mam,leaving the last question blank.just before the class comes to an end ,one of my witty friends asked mam wether the  last question would be counted towards the English continuous marks.

       ‘’absolutely’’,said by ma englsih tutor.”in your life,u will meet different kinds of people.all are significant,one should not ignore and neglect it.they deserve your attention and care,there won’t be any loss for greeting ,”kuzuzangpo,ga doe boe yoe?”(how have you been?)''

I have never forgotten that lesson,at times,I also learned her name was kezang.

Second important lesson:Give response to the one who is ineed.

One night,when I was returning from phuentsholing town towards my college,at 9.30pm,an older woman was standing on the side of the teenkilo tryng to bear heavy rainfall.she was desperately needed a ride.soaking wet,she decided to flag down the next car.

My cab driver din’t respond to that desperately awaiting woman eventhough I was alone in that cab.i requested the cab driver to stop the vehicle and reached her to her desired destiny.she seemed to be in a big hurry.Towards goenpa,she stopped the vehicle ,offered him,NU.500/- and wrote address of cab driver in a hurry and went away.

A week later I got to print my assignment,I was to visit gangotri,jaigoan  for cheaper printing rate,on the way towards jaigoan,I met the cab driver which I rode to his vehicle to other day in times of heavy rain,he recognized me and was coming forward to share his happiness of receiving nokia branded cell phone and a special note from the woman,here goes,’’thank you so much for helping me on the way of teenkilo the other night.the rain drenched not only my clothes but also my spirits.because of you I was able to  make it to my dyiing mother’s bedside just she passed away.god bless you for helping me and unselfishly helping others, your passenger”.

Third mportant lesson:to be contd.

the paradox of our time in this modern world..

The impossiblity  of our time  in this cyber age,people are achieving higher education ,more degrees but  less civic sense, great knowledge yet fail to implement, more experts ,yet more perplexities.

high scholar doctors, different kinds of medicind where one can afford to buy yet different incurable new diseases, spent more expenses on drinks and smokes, offer too less to the needy ones, read too little and pray too seldom,

multiplied possessions but got less values, talk too much, give theory too much but love too seldom and detest too often.evryone got to learn how make a living but not a life, everyone got 24 hours  a day and 365 days a year to add to life but not life to 24 hours in a day and 365 days

in a year,.

Everyone has got different ways and options to reach to moon and come back but have great trouble and difficulties to cross few meters to meet our own blood related siblings, everyone tries to conquered outer space but not inner space.

           we expect others to forgive us but we donot learn how to forgive others,others

 care and love us,yet we do not care.

We got to do great things in life but not better things. We have cleaned house to dwell in and clean water to drink and clean environment to enjoy but polluted the soul.

   We write more but learn less.

everyone learnt to rush ,yet no space to learn how to wait and have patience.in this age, everyone go for two incomes and more wages, yet more troubles of insufficiency, beautiful and fancier houses, but broken homes with fights.

in this cyber age everythg happens with a seconds ,quick trips, one night stands, overweight bodies, one can talk to faraway relative through cellphone without even bothering to travel miles to reach there, got so many pills to fall asleep and to kill..

We forget to hold hands and cherish the one who is alive yet, someday we try to remember and cherish them in their absence.

This are all absurdity of this modern world.

To quote.’’life is not measure the number of breathe you take but by the moments that take our breathe away”.